Remembering Brian Salice

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We still have good and bad days, mostly good. Now it has moved to mostly a few bad moments.

Just a few things that reminded us of "Daddy" during the memorial.

This is the hamster city "gift from God" that I found. While searching the apartment for items that belong to the girls, I heard something moving. It was 2 little dwarf hamsters. These hamsters have helped during this transitional time. The girls were thrilled to know that I found the hamsters!

These are the balloons that were sent to heaven with a note attached for "Daddy"

Sad times in our home...

Sage and Brooke's dad passed away last week. After telling the kids about it on Tuesday, we held a kid-directed memorial for him in our home on Saturday. He was a dedicated Father to his daughters. His love for them was great. While cleaning out his apartment I came across items that will help the girls remember him. One of the best things found, was a trunk filled with letters and photo albums from his mission. His last year he wrote (spoke) his journal into a tape. The girls (including Libby) are enjoying listening to his missionary stories at night while going to sleep.

Sage played a piece on the piano that was her Dad's favorite. She would play if for him on the phone at night. He called faithfully every night.

A video of Sage's balloon going up.

Many friends have sent thoughts about Brian, which I plan to include in a memory book along with family photos for the girls. Please don't hesitate to still write something, it may take me months to get it all together.

Brian's mother is still alive and has been very supportive during this time. Unfortunately, she moved out of state weeks ago, making it harder for the girls to feel connected as they were before that.

And it came to pass...

Brooke on 2 wheels!

Brooke is so lucky to have a patient step-dad that kept waiting for the right moment to take the pedals off her bike. He was ready for her after school last Friday afternoon. I believe it took less than a few hours to have her riding around our block 5 times. This video is a week later and she still has no fear!

Children or Angels?

Please click on the program to enlarge and realize the spacing was messed up during conversion.

The primary program was on my mind all year, took weeks and months to write and put together. The children learned and practiced the songs month after month. I couldn't help but be speechless about the performance. When they sang, "God gave us families, to help us become what HE wants us to be" - I just couldn't help but hope that they will realize what that means to the rest of us...someday. Thank you to the village of people that helped support this program, especially the parents and teachers. Big thanks to my mom that played the piano without even practicing with the kids. The beautiful full page program that Brother Lodwick prepared and labored over for several weeks is not given justice with this converter program I had to use. Blogger wouldn't accept a pdf file.

Highlights: 3 of our children singing in the program, Sage playing the prelude for 10 minutes as a duet with Grandma, my Aunt and Uncle coming to watch, Brooke actually speaking into the microphone, Perry and Libby's biological mom coming to watch, Libby singing a duet with Noah, Aunt Jenny (2nd counselor) left 1 week old baby at home to come and watch the program, shall I go on and on?

Service brings happiness :) Worth it? Absolutely!

New man in the house

This guy went from "Perry Hotter" to one fine young man in about 30 minutes. Look at how handsome he is. We can see him and better yet, he says he can see!

One of his young men leaders, Jon Mallette, has provided our family with so much service lately, I wasn't sure we could let him do one more thing for us...but he cut Perry's hair into this great style. Perry is excited to be using "gel" now. Perry has very thick hair.